6 Ways You Can Make It Easier to Have an Orgasm During Sex

So you are in the middle of the pleasure with your partner enjoying it and just when you are about to hit cloud 9 (orgasm) boom! Thoughts about work fills your mind, or you start worry about how your body looks. You try to get back in it but you are back to 0 .

It’s not just you—almost every woman knows what it’s like to lose an orgasm during sex. anxiety, body image issues, too-high expectations, stress, and more can cause this.

Relax before you get naked

If you don’t feel safe and relaxed before sex, it’ll be harder to get off. “Orgasms are about release, letting go, vulnerability,” so before getting into action and taking off your clothes get in the right mindset.

Focus On Your Body Not Orgasm

Every time a thought comes to you during sex, find a feeling of pleasure in your body to focus on. The more caught up you are in sexy physical feelings than mental space the faster you will get there.

Dont Try To Impress Your Partner

most partners have high expection of how and when your orgasm should be. Talk to your partner. the more they can let go of those expectations and any insecurity, the less anxious you will feel and more into your body.

Also Read 8Common Sex Injuries and How to Treat/Avoid Them

Try Mindful Masturbation

No we are not talking about porn, sex toys or any orgasm enhancer. Sit or lie down in a comfortable position, and start to touch your body. Don’t go straight to the genitals, Touch your face, breasts, arms, stomach, and legs. Try different pressures and strokes. Find out what your body responds to.

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Cry Out, Moan And Talk Dirty

If you’re comfortable enough with your partner to do these things you will not be far from orgasmville. Sound and movement, especially of the hips and pelvis, also helps to move sexual energy around the body 

Yet To Happen ? Dont worry

So you didn’t climax? Okay, maybe it’ll happen next time. But don’t obsess over it. You can book a session with a therapist like @wittysally

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